Within the space of half an hour the other day at the shops:

- Because I wouldn't let her play on a bench for more than five minutes.

- Because I wouldn't let her go in the changeroom and play.

- Because I wanted to walk into a shop.

- Because I wanted to look at things in the shop instead of running around it.

- Because when she ran away from me I called out her name too loudly/angrily.

- Because she wanted me to buy her the pretty pink "undies" (g-string) she picked up.

- Because I wanted to leave the shop and sit with her to calm her down.

- Because she wanted to get down from the chair but not hold my hand.

... And that's only the specifics I can remember, there were more: