we struggled more the second time around. ds2 is just a fussier little individual, much more sensitive than his big brother - and for a few weeks we felt like we had no idea what we were doing!
it's weird cos i think we just expected ds2 to be exactly like ds1 and when he wasn't we were a bit dumbfounded. he had bad colic too, and my dh ended up puttting him in the HAB and doing laps around our house for about an hour every night just to stop the crying. ds1 hardly even cried!