In all honesty no matter what advice your gonning get...your still going to have that urge in the pit of your tummy for the second baby and I wouldnt be surprised if in 2 months time I read you pg notice in here

To me...yourve answered your own question...I think pretty much any mother who's husband works 40+ hours a week is raising their children mostly on their own...most of us are number one carer for our children...Im not putting men down, they just work most of their time to provide for their families. Consider all the woman out there who WORK full stop and still raise their families...i think they deserve a dame medal in my eyes!

An in aswer to your question (after my dribble lol) YES you will manage it better then you realise