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  1. #1
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    Mar 2008
    Nth West Melbourne
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    Unhappy Sleep Gone Bad

    DS has always been a pretty good sleeper. For the last few months, he has been great- going to bed at 7:00ish, waking up about 5:30 for a feed, then back to sleep until about 7:30am. Very nice indeed.

    But since Tuesday night, things have gone awry. He is up about 3 times a night and he wakes up just yelling! Its not like he's waking up whingy and needs a pat or his dummy, he is waking up really crying until we feed him, and then he has a huge feed and goes back to sleep. Its getting quite tiring.

    Does anyone have any theories why? My best theory is growth spurt (a theory I like since it means it will END)- he is really, really trying to work out how to get on his hands and knees and get around and I've heard when they are learning to crawl a lot of processing happens at night and it disrupts their sleep....true? He may also have some top teeth starting to move, and maybe he needs some more solids closer to bedtime?

    I don't know! Can anyone tell me it will go back to his nice previous sleep pattern?!!

  2. #2
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    Mar 2008
    Nth West Melbourne
    997

    Anyone? I'm not looking forward to tonight....

  3. #3
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    Jan 2009
    A little place called paradise.
    207

    Hi Amberj,
    Sounds exactly like my DS a couple of months ago, He was in a bedtime routine(as was I), the times you mentioned were similar and then it ALL changed, I put it down to a growth spurt too. DS had his dinner about 5-5.30ish and then about 1/2 and hour before his bedtime BF I'd offer another snack eg yoghurt or custard and 9 times out of 10 he would eat that as well. I also added some pasta to his meat and veges so it was more filling. Have you checked his gums? Are there also any little teethies appearing? My DS also around the time he got his first teeth/started crawling where he would wake have a little play regardless of the time and then not be able to settle himself and the only way he would go back to sleep was with a BF, this went on for a few weeks and then gradually he wasn't waking up as much. Sorry it doesn't really solve you prob but I thought I'd just let you know how things were for us. Big hugs to you and heres to hoping you get a better night tonight.....sleep is soooo over rated anyway LOL!!

  4. #4
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    Mar 2007
    outer South East Melbourne
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    I feel your pain.

    My son is 8 months old & has been having disrupted sleep for the past two weeks. So far I haven't been able to work out what it is. He slept through the night from 12 weeks so it's come as a huge shock to me to suddenly have to wake up at either 2 or 4am to give him a feed. He also wakes at other times & usually I have to chuck the dummy back in.

    I read a post elsewhere that was directed to a woman having issues with an 8 month old that sometimes they get very unsettled before they start to crawl or walk. In my son's case I'm thinking walking may be around the corner cos he's been crawling for a couple of months. We do have teeth coming through as well though so it's all a bit hard to work out.

    I have been giving him solids at around 6.30 & then a bottle just before bed but it's not stopping him waking in the night.

    I hope someone comes along soon who can advise us what we can do to get them out of these bad habits they have suddenly taken up.

  5. #5
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    Apr 2008
    in love. lots of it.
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    um, sorry, no solutions here either, only to say that the same thing is happening here only much much worse. DS got his 5th tooth this morning, and is already cruising around the furniture and crawling. Lately he's been waking up yelling and screaming inconsolably at 10.30-11 and again at 2, and staying awake and screaming for up to 2 hours. He will only resettle with a big feed.
    We have a similar routine, however this was disrupted a little while back by a holiday and two top teeth, but we were getting back on track. Somebody please tell me they grow out of it, because DP and I are exhausted!

  6. #6
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    Mar 2007
    outer South East Melbourne
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    Just thought I'd let you know I actually got a full night's sleep last night.

    What did I do differently?

    Fed him less milk during the day. I don't know if it's a coincidence of course, I will keep you updated as to if its still working or not.

    My MCHN had told me I needed to cut the milk feeds down as he was having 5 or 6 bottles in 24 hours (usually only 5 but 6 when he woke in the middle of the night). She said he should be having 3 solid meals a day & 3 bottles a day. I was told this on Monday & had been trying to get him into the routine but yesterday was the first day it actually happed.

    Morning bottle, afternoon bottle & night bottle, 3 meals & bed at 7pm & he didn't wake until 6.30am, not even for his dummy to be stuck back in. Maybe, just maybe I was over feeding him.

  7. #7
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    Mar 2008
    Nth West Melbourne
    997

    Nice Satya. We didn't do badly at all last night- up at 2:30 for a bottle and I didn't want to get up again so I fed him a big bottle and he slept until 7am. Yay.

    I still feed Peter 5-6 bottles a day....how much each bottle does your LO eat? Peter doesn't actually have big bottles- usually about 150ml, so I don't think he's overeating milk.