I think they are either hat/hair kids or they aren't - no matter what you do. DD1 never took her hat off as a baby and loved having her hair done. DD2 won't have her hair brushed or washed except under extreme bribe conditions. She hates MY hair up and demands I take it out.
At 4, she has only just accepted her hair being done because all of a sudden she wanted plaits like mum.

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