Strange question i know.

But DD gets really dirty behind her ears in the little creases (i assume milk/vomit etc - whatever runs behind it)... and i try to clean behind them every day.

I find water/cotton wool just doesnt do the trick - neither does a washcloth in the bath.

She is very sensitive and hates me cleaning behind them and they can get crusty bits in the creases and it smells behind them

I tried baby oil and it worked fine (softened up the crusty bits and cleaned it) but now all the skin (the next day) is pink and looks like it is peeling or something... dry and yukky ..

What do you use and how do you keep it clean behind your db ears?