It definitely gets harder the more kids you have! When dd1 came along, ds and I would have a special morning tea every day after I put his sister to bed. We also used this time for reading books etc but I didn't take him out or whatever for special one on one time if that makes sense?

Poor ds gets nothing now, dd1 doesn't have a day nap so she is around all day too. I have special one on one time with dd1 when ds is at daycare on Wednesday's and dd2 is asleep. I have special one on one time with dd2 on Fridays when the older two are at daycare.

Definitely harder the more kids you have