Little one invariably gets "wow, look at all those golden curls" and then a look at me (straight brownish hair) and then my partner (long straight blonde hair) "where did she get them from?"

As to the other one, I think she's a bit too big now for "oooh that's so cute" comments, being almost as tall as I am and probably too old to be "cute" anyway, and she's usually talking so much you couldn't get a compliment in edgeways if you tried

But when she was little and out with my mother she used to get "she's so cute and she looks just like her grandma!" and my mother would say "so does that mean I'm cute too?". She does look like grandma. Not me. Bah. My mother says its revenge because I never looked anything like *her*