will she be cuddled or patted back to sleep? If so I would resort to that, back to old comfort methods. My Ash is the same age, and he went through a sick period a month back where he was waking cos he wasn't well. Then he got better... but kept waking. Like you I am pregnant and it was so draining! I started picking him up from his cot and just cuddling him for 5 minutes while I walked around his room. He used to be fed to sleep so I started giving him a little warm milk, then layed him down and patted him for a minute. He would cry out MUMMY when I walked out but I would say "go to sleep now" from my room and he would. It went on for almost 2 weeks and was driving me nuts but he's started sleeping through again thank GOODNESS!

Is there any way you can get a bassinet for bubs? Move her back into her cot?? Even borrow one?? Just thinking it might be better in the long run to try and find a way to put her back in her cot. Sounds like she's not quite ready for a bed. I tried Ash in a bed in March, but what normally was a smooth bed time turned in to a 2 hour battle with him getting in and out to play! So he went back into the cot and i've borrowed a bassinet from a friend.

Her behaviour is not out of the ordinary. Also remember you have a bubba due soon, they pick up on the change. Ashton has started the tanties, as long as it's not because he has been naughty and i've growled, I'll pick him up and cuddle him while explaining that he's angry and that's ok but "you can't touch it because it's dangerous" or "you can't have it because it's not yours" etc. Remember she's only 20 months