You will find that even after a while that you tend to fit in with them more than they do with you. For example you'll say 'oh xxx is due for a feed at 10am, I will do this first/after' etc and before long you will find that you have fitted in with them perfectly LOL. I always followed their lead for feeding and everything and after a while it just suited us to keep doing things around them kwim? All three of ours have fell into the same habits and patterns of doing things too, so that was perfect for us.