My 1yr old boy is having problems with his fine motor skills.

I know its not something to panic about but naturally im concerned. He is 13months tomorrow and while he can walk GREAT and has since he was 10months old and other areas he is advanced, in his fine motor skills he is a bit slow and i wanna know if anyone else is finding this and has advice or has found things to help.

He doesnt feed himself, never puts anything in his mouth, he can hold a cup and the food but wont do it himself.. he doesnt clap or copy anything i do.. he spoke about 3 months ago for about 2 weeks saying mumma but now nothing...

I think alot of it is lazyness but i want to get him out of this... im starting to go to Gymbaroo to see if i can get some help there but im hoping there are some things i can do at home.. maybe there is a dvd or a book i can read with suggestions.. i HATE surfing the net for these kind of things, what i have found is nothing great...