DS1 I fight with to brush his teeth, 30 secs is about all I get here as well, I am also worried about his teeth nit being cleaned properly, he will happily walk around sucking on toothbrush and putting water on it a million times but if i try and brush with or without toothpaste he cracks it.

I have been told 1st dentist visit anytime after 2nd birthday (we still have not gone yet as i kmow I will need a check up to show him what to do and I am scared of dentist!)