Thanks for your replies ladies and some for some of you and your LO.

Freya and Willow, you will both be able to report in on your LO reactions very soon. Good luck ladies, I hope everything goes well for you both.

Beans, thanks, I have told her how much she can help me but she says she will only help if the baby is a girl. She says if it is a boy Daddy can look after it. I am hoping like you said that just that there is a baby will be enough and she will forget about what sex it actually is.

Schonell, funny how kids think to just send it back. Glad you DS is happy.

~TT40~ I actually thought about finding out at my scan last week just so I could tell DD1 and help her get use to the idea but DH really wants the suprise and so that is what it will be.

OP, I am glad your DD is happy with her brother. Gives me some hope.

I am hoping that if the baby brings along some sort of Barbie present that it will win DD1 over with that. I did not want to do the present from baby to siblings (just siblings to baby) thing but if it will help then I will.