Zarava - I know what you mean about the whole showering in peace....doesn't happen a lot in my house either! I might suggest that to DH and see what he says - I'm sure he'll agree at the time but follow through....hummm let's wait and see
That is when you don't give him a choice, i've done it to DP - just run the bath, hand over your LO and say here you go i'm going for a bath.
OR Sunday morning hand DS to your DH and say i'm off for coffee now, see you in an hour