Cate, you don't HAVE to go to hospital - you can stay at home. You can rock up at a hospital locally and say you're about to push, no time to get to the aforementioned hospital.
Just because you have an appointment doesn't mean you can't cancel it!
Taking my own advice for the next time LOL.
edit:
"He couldn't perform a c/s on me without my consent." - my Obs could have; DH would have agreed if I didn't.
I'm backing out of this discussion: feeling like a COMPLETE waste of space again because I WAS bloody firm, I was bloody fighting... but why did I even have to? Why did I fail so badly that I couldn't even fight properly?

