Girls, for those of you who think you can fight, refuse or talk your way out of surgery... you can't. Sorry to sound defeatist but BTDT and it really makes me cry to think other people believe that anyone cares about you when you're giving birth. They don't.

Listen to your body and believe in yourself... *goes off back to bed to cry again.*

But that's why the rates need publishing - it's not "who does sections and who doesn't" it's "who treats you as a human being and who doesn't" in my eyes.