21.3.2011 An angel was born today .....

**willow5** · March 23rd, 2011, 07:35 AM

Congratulations, so sorry she couldn't stay.

**Manhattan** · March 23rd, 2011, 07:42 AM

Koby, I am so sorry your precious Hayley could not stay. Sending much love and prayers to you and your family at this time

xo

**Cocolove** · March 23rd, 2011, 08:03 AM

I wish there was more we could do for them, cant stop thinking about it, I cant imagine what your going through.
They are so lucky to have you tinks x
Sleep well Hayley xx

**Frangipani** · March 23rd, 2011, 08:15 AM

Ahurani.

I saw this yesterday but didn't have time to post. You were in my thoughts for most of the night.

I'm so sorry your precious Hayley couldn't stay but believe she will always be watching over you and your family and give you strength when it is needed, like it is needed now. Big hugs

**Party-of-five** · March 23rd, 2011, 09:26 AM

Congratulations on the arrival of beautiful Hayley

My thoughts are with you and your family Ahurani

**sarah85** · March 23rd, 2011, 09:40 AM

Ahurani, you and your family have been in my thoughts constantly since I read this.

I said a prayer for you and your princess last night...i just didn't know what else to do.

I'm sorry she couldn't stay with you - my heart is just breaking for you.

xxxx

**Tanya** · March 23rd, 2011, 09:51 AM

Ahurani,
Sending you loads of love and heaps of strength at this very difficult time.

I am so sorry that your daughter, Hayley could not stay with you longer

xx
Tanya

**~Kaz~** · March 23rd, 2011, 10:19 AM

Ahurani, I am so very sorry. What terrible news. I feel very upset for you and your family that Hayley could not stay with you.

Hayley sounds very beautiful.

Sending you lots of love and strength. You and your family are in my thoughts. xx

**Jellyfish** · March 23rd, 2011, 10:32 AM

Congratulations on the birth of Hayley

Thinking of you xox

**issy02** · March 23rd, 2011, 11:07 AM

Congratulations on your baby girl. I'm so sorry she couldn't stay with you on earth - she will always be with you as your precious angel above.

**mumsy** · March 23rd, 2011, 11:18 AM

I am so sorry to hear that things did not go well. What a horrific thing for you and your partner to go through and to endure. I imagine that Hayley will always be in your hearts. Pregnancy is such an emotional time as is giving birth to a child. It is so unfair that you don't get to take your baby home. I hope that you and your DP have lots of support IRL and that you can help eachother get through the tough times ahead.

Wishing you every blessing for the future. Xox.

**dory** · March 23rd, 2011, 11:21 AM

Ahurani

Welcome to your darling precious Hayley, what a dear sweet treasure she is and will always be.

There are simply no words that will offer you much comfort at the moment....such a bittersweet time. The absolute honour of birthing your darling Hayley, and meeting her, admiring her pure perfection, touching her soft little hands and feet, stroking her cheek, and the sheer heartbreak of also saying goodbye.

I know the utter heartache you are experiencing now..... I am so sorry that you are having to face decisions that no parent should have to face, and I know just how awful those decisions are...take your time with the decisions you need to make........even though it seems impossible right now, you will find a way through.

it is with a heavy heart that I will light a candle for your baby girl, gone too soon, but never forgotten and loved by many.

Go gently on yourself as you start to heal, both emotionally and physically. I know you don't know me, but if you ever want to vent, talk, cry, ask questions, just PM me. I cradle your tender broken heart in my hands, to help you through the journey you have begun.

Celebrating and remembering Hayley.

For now my sweet, honour your darling girl by grieiving, and focusing on you.

**jlk** · March 23rd, 2011, 02:22 PM

Ahurani

Welcome to your darling precious Hayley, what a dear sweet treasure she is and will always be.

There are simply no words that will offer you much comfort at the moment....such a bittersweet time. The absolute honour of birthing your darling Hayley, and meeting her, admiring her pure perfection, touching her soft little hands and feet, stroking her cheek, and the sheer heartbreak of also saying goodbye.

I know the utter heartache you are experiencing now..... I am so sorry that you are having to face decisions that no parent should have to face, and I know just how awful those decisions are...take your time with the decisions you need to make........even though it seems impossible right now, you will find a way through.

it is with a heavy heart that I will light a candle for your baby girl, gone too soon, but never forgotten and loved by many.

Go gently on yourself as you start to heal, both emotionally and physically. I know you don't know me, but if you ever want to vent, talk, cry, ask questions, just PM me. I cradle your tender broken heart in my hands, to help you through the journey you have begun.

Celebrating and remembering Hayley.

For now my sweet, honour your darling girl by grieiving, and focusing on you.

Dory has said it perfectly, as she said, i'm also here in you need

Jo
Storm Piper ~ born sleeping January 07 & Finn Patrick ~ born sleeping March 08

**csab** · March 23rd, 2011, 04:45 PM

Im so saddened to hear this news, Ahurani. I wish that you never had to feel such sadness, I wish I could take it away from you and that your precious little Hayley was here to stay in your arms. Im so terribly sorry for your loss. Fly little Angel Baby Hayley and watch over your beautiful Mummy Koby. Thinking of you.

**dory** · March 23rd, 2011, 06:57 PM

Here's a poem that I found, not sure where I found it and it's not as personal as Anila's but poignant....

Just For a moment

Our hands have touched, Our paths have crossed
A love is gained, A love is lost
Just for a moment I kissed the face
Of an innocent child I can't replace

Just for a moment a maternal touch
Would say the words that mean so much
A soft caress, the gentel tears
That will make those days last for years

Just for a moment I held your hand
My broken heart in your command
So much to tell you, so little time
Why were we punished, what was the crime

They took part of me when they took you away
As much as I love you, you wern't meant to stay
I gave you a hug that for always will last
As facing the future means leaving the past

Our souls have merged, I live for you
Perhaps I'm living your live too
I will carry on, I can always stand tall
Because just for one moment, I had it all

***EJ*** · March 23rd, 2011, 07:05 PM

I am devistated for you. So sorry your precious little girl could not stay. The love between you as mother and child will stay the same. Take care of yourself xoxo

**Cherished** · March 23rd, 2011, 08:07 PM

Oh darling friend

I have no idea of the heartache that you are feeling but I have no end to the tears falling down my face

I have just read that you lost your beautiful little girl Hayley May. You have been such a great support to me over the last couple of months and I want you to know that I am here for you any time if you want to chat, scream, cry or if you want a big hug. Be gentle with yourself xoxoxox

**Shanti** · March 23rd, 2011, 08:24 PM

I just wanted to thank everyone for their support over the last whatever how many hours it's been. I can't remember.

It's like a nightmare. I'll never forget all the support everyone has given me

I've been thinking about you alot today hun

we're all here for you..... xoxo

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