Thanks everyone....
I probably dont look what I weigh... lucky me. lol

I am over 120kgs. I Am going public, and there are a total of 5 obs for the entire pregnant population at the hospital.
I am not so much worried about the c sect itself...... just the after affects.... scar infections etc. I am also a little worried about the drugs side of things too.

My BP has been excellent all pregnancy, all my blood tests have been perfect and I've had no major dramas at all. It's so hard when you have never been pregnant before and you have NO IDEA what to expect.

Thanks to everyone who has replied.

Unfortunately, I don't think I can change the OBS that has been 'assigned' to me. No wonder so many people go private

I have another appt in 2 weeks time, and I'm bringing my mum.... boy will she get stuck into him if I don't get the answers I want.
I will also be stating (abruptly if I have to) my preference for VB.

I am not against cesarian at all, and I don't think I would think any less of myself if I had one, I am just worried about my well being afterwards.

Again, thanks for your replies, I really appreciate it!

Nicky