i was also going to suggest the dvd Being a Dad. Never seen the pink kit.
I think if you get him to stay at your head end, then you should be fine, and he might surprise you at the time by getting more involved.
On the other hand, me - DH loves that sorta stuff, loves the real life medical shows. I have had to tell him that, if by chance i have a c/s - there is to be absolulty no peeking.