I've been asked to support a friend through her VBAC, and I'm HUGELY honoured and really excited about this, but as the day approaches, I'm getting scared! I felt more at ease approaching my own labours, honestly. And I know that if I'm nervous and tense in the delivery room, that will be absolutely no help at all. I've had 5 great deliveries myself, but I've never coached anyone through labour. I have a lot more sympathy for my husband now....
So please ladies, give me whatever encouragement, advice, support, or information you can think of! What did your doula do for you? What did you want most in labour? What did you hate? Anything you can tell me that will help me help her will be greatly appreciated!

Thanks!