I totally understand where you are coming from!!! My Mum, Nan and Cousins all looked at me like I was insane the week before DD was born and I was sooooooo against the "gross gooey baby straight from my VJ or Sunroof" They said they hadn't heard anything soo crazy in their lives they actually burst out in laughter thinking I was joking then realized I was being serious LOL!

I was telling DH make sure she is soo clean yet to be completely honest you don't even think of that it kinda goes out the window!