With ds i didnt know as i had an epi and was most probably sleeping! With DD i felt kinda weird and i didnt know what i wanted to do if that makes sense. I had lost control a bit and wasnt sure how to get it back - i kept saying that i had had enough and couldnt do it anymore etc etc - i clearly remember my middy and my sister both giggling and saying that the baby wasnt far off and i was 'in transition' lol - yep, started pushing and not long after she was born