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  1. #1
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    Dec 2007
    Victoria
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    Question What was your dad doing while you were being born?

    Lulu made me wonder in another thread...

    Where was your dad while your mum was giving birth?
    I remember my Grandma asking me when I was telling her Charlotte had been born whether Daryl had been nervous while he was walking the hallway waiting for hr to be born...I had a giggle.

    Was he there, not there, told ot leave?
    Did he faint, or was he a fabulous support person?

    My dad was apparently in the staff lounge with the doctor eating steak and jelly when Iwas born...lol

  2. #2

    Mar 2004
    Sparta
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    He was at the pub

  3. #3
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Feb 2006
    melbourne
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    at work!

  4. #4

    Apr 2007
    the Sauna
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    sadly mine was at work for mine and my sisters birth . but my dh was right there by my side for both mine ... brave man ... he even took my placenta home in a bag ... thats huge for a sqeamish man like mine

  5. #5
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    Jan 2007
    where cosmopolitans and margaritas flow all night
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    My dad was taking photos of me coming out...those photos are very well hidden. So well hidden that I don't think they even know where they are. I've seen the photos.

    When my little sister was born my dad was down the business end catching her.

  6. #6
    BellyBelly Member

    Oct 2008
    3,132

    He was there and he cut the cord. It was the first birth in my mum's family that a male had ever been present for.

  7. #7
    smiles4u Guest

    Wink

    ... Alexis OMG that's funny

    All i know is my Mum was in the hospital bed & Dad was told to go home with my older sister, Mum was reading the Post magazine having a glass of orange juice with crushed ice then she got a urge to push & by the time she pressed the buzzer for the nurse to come, the nurse just caught me in time ... not bad effort seeing Mum was in labour for 36hours

    Oh yeh also, Mum told me when she was pregnant with me the Doc thought she was carrying twins (turned out i had broad shoulders for a 7lb bub) ... Mum said oh well better go buy two of everything as Dad was getting ready to pass out at the thought of twins

  8. #8
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    Aug 2006
    On the other side of this screen!!!
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    My dad apparently ate the roast lunch they'd brought in for my mother.

    This is scary since my DH also ate the roast lunch they brought in for me.

    What is it with roast lunches and women in labour? You'd think they'd come up with some more suitable menu options! LOL

  9. #9
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    Nov 2006
    brisbane
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    No idea i was being born

    Um seriously thought I believe he was there but mum had an emergancy c section and I think he fainted lol! Will have to ask mum later......

  10. #10
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    Nov 2008
    North Haven, NSW
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    The doctors/nurses told my Nan & Dad to go have lunch as there would be a while yet...so they did...and so i came lol. They missed the whole thing. Guess i was just too shy to come out with all those people watching haha

  11. #11
    BellyBelly Member

    Dec 2005
    3,130

    he was watching cricket with the nurses in the nursing station LOL

  12. #12
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    Jul 2006
    Logan
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    I was born at the Mater Mothers in Brisbane. My Dad was a truckie and when my Mum went into labour he was on his way to do a 12 hour trip. So he dropped her off at the bottom of the hill along with her suit case, wished her luck and said goodbye. Around 14 hours later he returned but I still wasn't born , so he went to the pub to wait. He returned a few minutes before I was born and was allowed in to witness me being born...My poor mum was only 18 years old andlaboured all by herself. What a champ

  13. #13
    smiles4u Guest

    Talking

    (MD ... how funny as my DP couldn't wait to get his hands on the lemon pudding they wheeled into the labour room only moments after my giving birth ... he asked with hesitation if i wanted it and i said "Um, oh yeh i'm the one that just gave birth so I AM having it ", LOL )

  14. #14

    Nov 2007
    Earth
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    Ringing everyone to tell them Mum had gone into labour

  15. #15
    Registered User

    Dec 2008
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    My dad was with my mum when she had all 3 of us. He cut the cord and was the first person to hold us, even before Mum.

  16. #16
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    Jul 2008
    Forest Lake - Brisbane
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    Mum had only just turned 16 when I was born and Dad was almost 17. He was at the movies with his mates and was highly embarassed as his Mum got them to stop the movie so she could go in to find him. I was already born by that stage but he wasnt a happy chappy about it.
    He did manage to make it to my brothers and sisters births though.

    My hubby missed our third sons as he was out having a smoke!!! I had been slowly labouring for ages after been induced and he was starting to get on my wick. I was only about 5cm when he said im going out for a quick smoke. I was quite happy for him to go, and as soon as he did I had two massive painful contractions and said to my midwife I need to push.
    Three big pushes later and ds pops out. hubby came in just in time to cut the cord and I have never let him live it down.
    Lucky he has given up smoking now so was there for Scouts birth and fingers crossed he had better be there for this one!

  17. #17
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    Jan 2009
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    My Dad was in th eroom with my Mum - I'm 33. He says it was one of the deepest bonding experiences of their marriage. He also tells of all the back rubbing he did during the labour. Poor mum was in labour from Friday to 1am Monday when I was born - a long time!! And Dad did the traditional wet the babies head pub thing afterwards with cigars and all apparantly.