I've told her before quite a few times. I think had she not been there I would have caved through fear related to my c/s scar. And in no way was Kelly like "NO YOU ARE NOT HAVING DRUGS" she just helped support me through the tough parts, and helped me to stay focused so that I didn't resort to drugs. And having a VBAC, thanks to society I did have a level of fear so I am grateful that Kelly was present because I'm not sure that my VBAC would have been drug free or even successful without her.
ETA: And whilst I love Marc and he was brilliant I don't think I'd list him as drug relief, a good midwife is a good drug relief, but not Marc before that birth. However if I had to have another birth very possibly as I think Kelly & Di taught him some great skills.
*hugs*
Cailin
Last edited by Rouge; September 1st, 2007 at 12:38 AM.
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