Hi Plagued. I have been through this with my twins born at 24wks then with my 25weeker. I was lucky with my 25 weeker, but with my twins I had to make the hardest decsion of my life. Please feel free to message me or click on the links in my sig if you want to read my story.

Sending strength to Baby Jake. I hope you have lots of support. Go very gentle Mama. xx