Olive, DS would be the same as your DD. He has 4-5 feeds daily, 2 overnight and solids basically whenever we eat. He eats a paultry amount compared to other babies his ages that I know (after having watched their mothers just shovel it in), but he's happy.
He clamps his mouth shut after exactly 3 mouthfuls of anything - even when he's feeding himself so I guess that's his limit atm.