thanks to you all for your replies...

ive tried getting my hubby to go in instead, but she won have a bar of it! She makes her "i need boob" noise, and she wont rest until she gets it!!!!

I actually started work this week, just for 2 days. im lucky enough to be able to take her along with me (and my mum to look after her!), as i work in my husbands practice...I tried to just leave her with mum the whole time and not go near her to see how long she could go with out a breast feed...she got to after lunch and went crazy till i went in to feed her....

Barb, you mentioned that she will work out how to go to sleep without me...please tell me how!!!!!!!!!!! She has never fallen asleep on her own in her whole life! if its not on the breast its in the car or the pram...