Definately should have asked permission first... However if it was me I'd say thanks, but no thanks. I know it's Natural, but it's kinda odd to me still. However, if it was a life or death jam where my baby needed milk from another or I needed to give it, I wouldn't hesitate.

But I think the bigger picture is at the end of the day, baby didnt give a rats arse ><;; S/he had a full belly and was snoozing peacefully. Maybe Mother Number 2 & 3 should have just chalked it up to experience.