Think I solved the issue

Left DH with ds2 while I dropped ds1 off at cc on monday (20min round trip on a bad day). Ds2 was sleeping when I left but woke wanting a feed before I got back.
Left ds2 with DH later in the day for a Chiro appointment (out for 1/2hr max) - DH was changing pooey nappy when I left but ds wanted a feed after that


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