pfft to those who says she is too weak to be waking up at night... are these the same people who said she should be sleeping through just a few months ago??? unfortunately people will always find something to criticise about.

I also think you have answered a lot of your own questions... she is happy and full of energy - if she wasn't eating enough she wouldn't be. I wouldn't be making her anything different for tea otherwise she might only ever eat honey toast for tea yk?

IMO while ever you are bf (and even if she isn't feeding as much everything becomes more concentrated) she is getting a lot of nutrients from that, so I don't believe you need to give her toddler milk.

Like other posters have suggested, if you are truly worried about her lack of vege intake so to speak that you might want to look at adding some veges into her lunch time meal or to an omelette in the morning etc...