Hi Misty,

xoxo you sound like a great mum.


Do you think you could try using a cup or spoon instead of a bottle for the EBM?

She sounds similar to my DD (who was thankfully my first), and by a month old I caved and introduced a dummy. She was rather small (2.6kg, full term and healthy, just small), but I don't know if that has anything to do with it (I just thought small = small mouth, small tummy...). Before a month old introducing a dummy is not recommended because of the possibility of nipple confusion (and I guess the reaction to the bottle is a sign of nipple confusion?).

In light of tiredness (and as an experienced mum you probably already know?): be aware of your attachment, and possible damage to your nipples from the lengthy feeds.

xo
Catherine

Otherwise, I guess if you ditch the ebm night feed, it might be a few more weeks of sleep deprivation before she speeds up. She is only 11 days old...it is wonderful how patient you are.

Do you have anyone that can help you out with your older kids?