OMG Nic that sounds absolutely horrendous. Wow... I was so lucky with mine. Because I had an epi already placed they use that port for the spinal block & even though I felt the first few incisions after that it was all good. I went into shock after feeling the incisions but then the spinal started working. My body shook throughout the entire procedure. When Matilda came out she was put straight into DH's arms & they did everything they needed to right off to the side where I could see. She was on my bb's before I left the theatre. I just felt ripped off about the birth, but the more I hear women's stories the more I realise how fortunate I was.
Nic in Brissy there is a thing called Birth Talk in Milton where women with traumatic birth's get together to sort through their experiences, and some were a while ago... most of the time the women there are TTC or pregnant and want to sort through things before having their second...
