thanks for your replys i am public but i am suffering from anxiety at moment my sister in law & brother lost there baby during labour last month&has put alot of stress,worry,fear onto me , my doctor delivered there baby & is very aware of my fears but i never brought up the c/s question last visit we were just taking bout the loss of my nephew but also cause i have a special needs son who needs 24 hour care ect so he was very understanding bout how i was feeling so i dont think he will have a problem agreeing well no harm asking either be yes or no but i know how more relaxed i will be knowing i am book for a c/s this time around.