While my c-section wasn't planned it was for a different reason than yours ~ just quickly my waters broke at 31wks & bubs was born at 32wks when he stopped moving.
Initially I was upset coz it wasn't how I wanted to birth my baby. But in the end I came to the realisation that it didn't matter how my baby was born coz I had carried him & helped him grow & be healthy, & while I didn't have the birth I planned, I did end up with a healthy, albeit small, baby & that is all that is important in my eyes.
As for people thinking that you have opted out of a natural birth, I think no matter what the reason there will always be people who will think like that. In your case you have a very serious medical condition that would greatly hamper, & in fact most likely even prevent you from having a vaginal birth. And as we all know anything can happen & often does during pg, even a trouble free pg can have its own troubles towards the end.
Maybe read lots on c-sections & hopefully lots of people will respond to you & you will get some great information to help you enjoy this experience.


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