I've had one after labour and one with no labour.
I totally agree with the PPs about less tiredness. I think my pain was a bit worse, but only because I felt better and so tried to do more stuff quicker. The staff also expect you to do more (I found) as it wasn't my first bub. This time I'll be extra aware of that and take it slower.
I did feel pulling and pushing, but it didn't hurt or was uncomfortable, just weird IYKWIM?

Take some time out tonight and just chill. Do something lovely for yourself. Be excited that tomorrow you get to meet your new little person.
Can't wait to hear.