thanks guys..
what really gets to me was wen he moved away to brisbane he went out of his way at a visit with dd, and said that he wouldnt be working and would be a poor tafe shouldnt for awhile..as if saying you arnt getting any money from me..(which i wouldnt accept anyway) ive never asked for anything and have never recieved a cent since ive been pregnant till now( dd almost 1) besides the cs money which wouldnt do much gd anyway..all dd's cs money goes into her account..

im not going to report it.., i just wanted to confirm that what he was doing is morally wrong.. some men are totally thoughtless..