Hi everyone.
My DS (6.5 years) loves to push the boundaries ALOT!

We are currently undertaking paediatricians appointments and school assessments in relation to Aspergers/Autism, ADHD and Conduct Disorder.
I have had several appointments with several paediatricians who all told me that I was over reacting to his behaviour. Finally after 2 years I finally saw one who listened and is now doing all the assessments.

Anyway, (going to vent a bit here, sorry) just today he's bitten DD (3.5 years), stolen more food out of my fridge and cupboard than I could eat in a day (and eaten it along with all his meals and snacks that I have given him), made a concoction in the bath tub of random soaps, salt and chocolate sauce and (I think) he's peed in it (wtf??), decided that the lounge was a trampoline multiple times today and, took a sharp knife into his room (got it out off the top of the fridge) and (last one I promise) pulled all the toilet paper off the roll and then pooed on it and left it on the floor.

I am seriously at a loss as to what to do with him. I have tried EVERYTHING the paediatrician has advised as well as some if my own things.

I guess I need to know I'm not alone and to see if any of you have any advice. Also, how can I stop DD following his behaviour?

Any help, or even comforting words would be very much appreciated. They are both in bed now and I'm sitting here bawling my eyes out because I'm just soooo frustrated!