I'm a bit concerned about how it (sending the letter) will effect Milo's being at the centre, but I guess since the parents and majority of carers are coming for the same side, it should be OK....
I feel the same way whenever I need to say something at my childcare, but when the wellbeing of you family is going to be majorly affected then often something has to be said.

I was waiting for the fallout from my complaint (just a gut feeling about the carer), but it ended up working in my favour (wont go into full details) and the other carers seem to be ok and have not said anything. I understand though that it is a scary thing to do.