Thanks everyone

Lulu - yeah we FINALLY made it back to Oz , for good now , and lets hope we never have to live in Poland again - thats all i'll say on that matter

We have decided we are sending Aneta to daycare , as soon as im happy with one that i find , ive realized she isnt the first or last child in this situation - and im sure she will be ok .. (its probably me whos going to stress and worry more than anything! )