Tbh she sounds like a 3 yr old the age of 3 for us both times has been attitude, attitude, pushing boundaries, and more attitude *long sigh*

There is no harm in pulling her out tho if that sits better with you. have a chat with the carers about how she handles herself and what/how they encourage them to deal with rough play etc. I definitely agree with the above tho that tiredness and stimulation can make them play up the next day or two. But go with what feels right.. She doesn't have to go there to be social