Sending get well vibes to your boys - Hope they are both feeling better soon.

I can relate to your frustration about doctors not listening to your concerns, my daughter gets throat/sinus/chest infections every 2 weeks (for the last 12 months) but no one can tell me how to stop it - they just keep telling me she needs to gain more weight! Ummm how can she when she wont eat 1 out of 2 weeks because she feels like crap and the gastroenterologist (we are getting a PEG put in) still hasn't seen us months after 3 referals have been sent through!!.

Anyway, thats getting away from your boys, good luck with the allergy angle well worth investigating. keep persisting you know your boys best and if you think something is not right you are there best advocate to get some results.

Sjl