Massage works well
start at the top side of her belly and rub down in a L shape- sorta follow the direction that the poo needs to go.
Also we used to put DS in Jolly Jumper and it was a good way to get himto poo as well. The pressure used to help
He would scream for days before he would poo and go between 10 days and 3 weeks in between poos! It was bad!!! WE used to also get the brown sugar and water, prune juice and pear juice- but the massage and the jolly jumper worked the best to actually get the poo out- the rest just used to soften it enough for him. Turns out his bum was too small (premmie) so when he had one of his ops- they stretched it for him!

You can also get a product from the chemist- i think it s called lactolase- safe for babes around you DD age- but just check to make sure.

Hugs its horrible- hang in there
mwah