it is so hard isn't it.

My DD also has a history of respiratory distress and infections and has been trialed twice on ventolin, my DD is constantly stopping breathing in her sleep and waking up gasping and screaming, having coughing fits then screaming in distress, bringing up her milk due to coughing/phlem just sitting and irritating her, it just doesn't seem to stop.

The ventolin did seem to help, it helped her keep her milk down and helped with the coughing, I think in our situation it goes a bit deeper though, we are actually off to see her respiratory specialist today at the childrens, I am hoping to get some answers.

I know this isn't of much assistance to you. Just wanted to offer a as I know how hard it can be.