Yep, definitely know what you mean. The Dermaveen is just a moisturising lotion that has colloidal oatmeal in it, if you're interested in trying something that's over the counter. Well, if you've BTDT then you definitely know how miserable (and embarrassing!) it is. Bugger that she's inherited it from you . I hope it settles down today so you don't have to rush around trying 20 million different things