You are a fantastic friend. She is a very lucky lady.

I agree with the other ladies suggestions. Send her some books, magazines etc in the post. The surprise when she receives them might give her a real boost.

Maybe get a pendant for a necklace or something and get that delivered. Something special like a baby etc, whatever you think is appropriate.

Another option is to write her a letter. Handwritten and mention everything that makes her special to you. That would really give me a boost if I got something like that.

Otherwise, talk to her DP about what he thinks your friend might need.

Hope her DS recovers quickly!