thread: Why cant it be me or DF????

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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Jan 2009
    pakenham, victoria
    3,660

    Why cant it be me or DF????

    i joined the heart kids page on FB and a lovely lady saw my little blurb about Bimbys condition and added me to FB as her little girl has it too.
    We've been talking, her case is somewhat different to ours but the same none the less.
    She said to go check out her photos because she has an album of pre and post surgery pics of her little girl.

    Thinking id be ok i had a look. STUPID mistake, i've been hysterically crying for the past half an hour, DF's not home and i'm a mess. i dont want that to be my little boy! covered in a million tubes and wires, 20 million monitors surounding him, sedated and on a ventilator with a huge big cut on his chest with tubes coming out of it

    Its so unfair, why cant it be one of us instead? why does he have to go through so so much?

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Nov 2009
    Scottish expat living in Geelong
    5,572

    I'm so sorry Bimby is going through this. It's beyond hard when your child is ill. I hope things are not as bad as you fear and the recovery is fast.

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Jul 2008
    Balnarring, Vic
    1,900

    I don't know what to say... But just couldn't not reply.
    Thinking if you and you're little one.

    Warn comforting hugs xxx

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Jan 2009
    pakenham, victoria
    3,660

    thanks girls, i really didnt expect the photos to be so confronting for me.
    no little baby should have to have open heart surgery

  5. #5
    Registered User

    May 2009
    SEQLD
    2,308

    Hopefully in the end they will have prepared you and when you do see him after surgery you can be less shocked and concentrate on getting him home

    Keeping everything crossed it goes well when the time comes!

  6. #6
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Feb 2006
    South Eastern Suburbs, Vic
    6,054

    Perhaps even though you are really upset now, it will help ease the shock down the track, you will be slightly more prepared. xo

  7. #7
    BellyBelly Member

    Oct 2008
    3,132

    Skybie. I don't know what to say but couldn't read and not post. I'm so sorry that Bimby has to go through all that. Huge big squishy to you.

  8. #8
    Registered User

    Jul 2010
    sydney
    2,187

    i have no words of wisdom but then to keep ur head up n just stay stron xoxox ur in my thoughts hun...