Is your childcare centre helpful when parents ask who are friends? Often I had to talk to the carers, or at Kinder, the Kinder teacher to really work out who the friends were (also to get help with spelling names)
Yes they will be helpful I will ask them who they would suggest for her party to sense check her list, and while am at it ask if any reason or behavior of hers that would lead to no invites. Another invite yesterday but not for her so DH thinks we should now check with staff. I don't think there will be is just one of those random things.