Snacks - you are right if she is not getting invites I don't think is because of her - more likely is because of DH and I :-) I can cope with that though. The kids actually are all very good at name pronunciation there are many Indian children and staff too so they are all good with saying names (and the kids correcting you if say it wrong) - but I can imagine the kids listing the names and the parents not being able to spell them might come into play.