thanks heaps for your advice girls. I dont want to make the day about them but coz i DD will only be one.. i dont have alot of kids stuff accumilated that they can play with. Not only that, i dont really want them to play with her stuff coz some of them are ruff heads.

Didnt even think of the toy library!!! yeah i can get heaps of stuff from there, atleast that will keep them out of the house.

Not too sure if it would be too cold for a water fight.. 22nd october?? Im sure their parents would be very impressed. Yep a couple of the boys will be able to play the playstation.. aged 6,8,9. so thats them sorted.

Personally i dont think Mia will be too fussed who there.. whats there etc. Coz as bubno.3 said, she will still want a sleep and mummy cuddles etc etc. SO she prob wont even be there half the time!