Well, you could try waking her after a 2-3 hour day sleep and feed her and hope she switches the 4-5 hour stint to the night.
Co-sleeping means you can just feed her without waking up fully yourself and that will help you sleep better.
I found a mental outlook helped me: I didn't expect ANY sleep for a year, so if I had just an hour it was an hour more than expected so really good. After the first year it all went downhill because I needed sleep and expected it by then!
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